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Wedding Photographer… To Be or Not To Be?

Ever since I became a professional photographer I have avoided weddings. Just plain avoided them. A few would-be wedding clients have inquired and I've just always simply said "nope! I don't do weddings."     I rationalized this aversion for all sorts of "good" reasons. I didn't like the idea of working with fussy brides or their picky moms. I didn't like the idea of being on my feet for 10 hours. But most of all, I HATED the idea of endless hours post-processing 3,000 pictures that (in my mind) would all look about the same. I mean, that white dress is gorgeous but if I have to see it in one more picture I'm going to gouge my eyes out. Honestly this might seem harsh but I don't even usually like looking THROUGH an entire image set of wedding photos. I can't imagine having to be the one to sort out and edit them all!     {side note - editing is one of my least favorite parts of my job. I hate being in front of the computer for

Kids in the Kitchen | Bacon & Chive Potato Salad

I've got another kid-friendly recipe for you and this time it's one my kids actually ate! Imagine that ;-) Also it's great for summer BBQs, as my friends can attest to.     Yes, they're jumping for joy because I brought my potato salad that night. I know. It's life-changing!     Anyways it's life-changing because it's loaded with bacon but I don't know how virtuous you can feel after eating it... it's still pretty heavy and true to the general ingredients of it's normal potato salad cousins.     Bacon & Chive Potato Salad 6-8 medium potatoes, washed and cut into chunks 10 eggs sour cream yellow mustard one bunch of chives or green onions, diced one package of bacon, cooked and crumbled 1-1 and 1/2 cups shredded cheddar cheese 2 tablespoons herbed seasoning salt (or regular salt)   So the day before your next BBQ you cut up the potatoes and boil them along with the eggs. When

Rediscovering CMOG Through the Eyes of a Child

Have you been to the Corning Museum of Glass lately? I just wrote a post for Urban Corning about how taking the girls recently helped me see CMOG with fresh eyes.      If you want to read the whole post, you can find it here!   Like this post? Please tell me in the comments about the last time you played tourist in your home town! I'd love to write down new

Event Photography | Vince & Eleanor’s 65th Anniversary

If these photos don't melt your heart then it's made of stone. This is the kind of event where my face gets sore from smiling so much!     I met this wonderful couple very briefly as their children situated them for their party to begin. So I didn't really know much about them. But what I learned about them through the course of the morning's event photography brought tears to my eyes.      First of all, you can tell a lot about a couple by the smiles of their friends and family.     I mean, it's downright contagious!  I feel like I'm missing out on a really good joke or something... but I think the punchline is something like "Vince and Eleanor, we're just so excited to be here celebrating this big day with you!"     The toasts were a fabulous mix of stories and praise of this wonderful couple. Tales of a fiery redhead getting herself set up on an awkward first

Local Gems | Camp Cherith of Western New York

Shauna Neiquist talks about "thin places" in her absolutely-wonderful-you-should-own-it book Bittersweet. {affiliate link} She was traveling in Ireland and studying Irish literature and poetry and she learned about this Celtic mystical tradition: A thin place, according to the Celtic mystics, is a place where the boundary between the natural world and the supernatural one is more permeable - thinner, if you will. Sometimes they're physical places. There are places all over Ireland where people have said, if you stand here, if you face this direction, if you hike to the top of that ridge at just the right time of day, that's a thin place, a place where the passage between heaven and earth is a short one, a place where God's presence is almost palpable.     About an hour from Corning is a very special thin place. It's a place where I have memories from almost every year of my life. It's a place that's a deep part of me. You hear whispers here... I think you